Every now and then, everyone gets too caught up in the "showing of face", the show-off status and the need to please and they forget what it is all about. A wedding is one of the most important party you can ever throw in your life but the numero uno thing the wedding is about is.... it is about YOU.
Amidst choosing flowers, gowns, picking out earrings and shoes, don't take your other half for granted. The wedding is a celebration of the two of you and how it has brought both of you together. There is absolutely no point in going through the planning, the wedding and later on in the marriage, screaming your heads off at each other.
With my recent wedding plans, the last few months have become a bit hectic - what with me being a bit anxious since the wedding is just around the corner and with workload ever increasing. My fiance and I decided to take a short holiday away to be alone. Away from the guest lists, away from the politically-correct decisions, away from the societal bitching basically. And the weekend retreat to our favourite local destination -- PENANG!!
It was a good retreat, a good chance to take a step back and know that this is about us and not about everyone else. What did we do on our retreat ... among other things was to go for our favourite beach massage spot on Feringghi with the infamous Foo Family.
Remember its about the both of you.
No comments:
Post a Comment